Facilitation, Conflict Management and Dispute Resolution 
Joseph P. McMahon Jr.

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Discussing the parties' interests

Interest based bargaining. To bargain based on interests, the parties must (1) consider and understand their own interests, (2) disclose them and (3) listen to and understand the other parties' interests. 

What are your own interests? What are your parties’ real interests in this negotiation? What are your real goals? How do you measure success? What are your success criteria? Do we know which issues are most important to us? Least important? Have we reconsidered our goals recently? Are they current or out of date?

 

Three levels of interests. In assessing your interests, I suggest that you consider three levels of interests (and be prepared to discuss them as fully as you comfortably can).

Level 1: What are your interests as they relate to this dispute?

Level 2: What are your interests as they relate to this relationship?  (end it, continue it, improve it, etc)

Level 3:  What are your longer range and longer term interests outside of this dispute and this relationship?  Where are you going?  What is needed to get there?

 

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